I can’t believe we are already in June. I know I say that about every month, but time really just be flying. I feel like it was just Easter, and here we are at Father’s Day. I was talking with this guy on the elevator and he was telling me how Father’s Day is one of the most underrated holidays we have. When I asked him why, he said, "Aside from the reality that a lot of people don’t have active fathers, men are typically downplayed when they receive gifts. Whereas most people shower their mothers with gifts and praise, fathers get cards and calls.'' Initially, I thought he was crazy. But the more I sat with it, I realized it was the truth. Stores poor so much money into marketing for Mother’s Day, you start to get bombarded with gift ideas, and ads in early April. Although there are some stores that market for Father’s Day, the ads are slim to none. Just think about it, restaurants number one busiest day is Mother’s Day. One of the biggest church attendance days is Mother’s Day. The least amount of crime in America is done on Mother’s Day. The reality is people love their mothers and mother figures, and love to show it to them. That’s not to say that people who have fathers and father figures, don’t love and appreciate them as well, they just show it differently. When I asked the man in the elevator, would he like to have a gift and be taken out by his children, he said, "Of course.'' I don’t know why society, believes that men don’t want to be celebrated just as much as the mothers, (I mean good, active, caring, fathers, not the deadbeats.) I understand that a lot of people have strained relationships with fathers, and daddy issues, but the best fathers aren’t celebrated at the capacity that mothers are.
My dad is the hardest person to shop for, every year I asked him what he wants, and he says nothing. That could be why it’s easier to shop for my mom, because she always says something that she wants throughout the year. I like to call myself the gift God, because I pride myself on giving good gifts, that the other person wants, or needs. Gifting is my love language, giving and receiving, so I love gifting, others how I do. Typically, I like to take my dad out and get him a gift, but unfortunately, I won’t be able to this year, since I moved. Last night I began to think about ways to make him feel appreciated and loved, I thought why not share it with you guys. I know we are less than five days away, but I wanted to share fifteen last minute gifts that your father, father figure, or husband, would love to have this Father’s Day.
1.Cologne
This is honestly a easy gift to grab a guy, make sure you find scents that he likes. So many times, women gift men cologne that they think smell good, but I challenge you to think about the man’s body chemistry, and what scents work well with him. When you’re researching, find one based on the kind of cologne that he already wears and read the notes to find something that fits. I hate getting perfume that I think stinks.
2.A Golf Day
This is something that is very inexpensive. Look up the closest golf course, or country club near you, and learn about their day passes or rates. You can gift someone a day pass to do their favorite thing. If the male in your life likes to golf, but doesn’t have golf clubs, you could either rent them, or purchase some clubs for him. Golf clubs are such a good lasting gift to give.
3.Cufflinks
If the man in your life wears a suit more than twice a month, this is the perfect gift. You can get some really nice designer cufflinks for under $300. If he is into personalized items, you can get some nice cufflinks engraved, and that’ll be a keepsake that he keeps forever.
4.Nice Backpack or Computer Bag
Whether the man your life is in corporate, or an entrepreneur, this is the perfect gift. Men will lug around their laptops, tablets, etc., in their hands all day. This gift, well make their life so much easier. If you have some extra cash, you can find them a really nice leather bag that is durable. Depending on the man, if he has a favorite brand, I’m pretty sure they have a backpack or computer bag you could find.
5.A Spa Day
Please don’t think that ladies are the only people who enjoy a nice spa day. Men love massages. Find a day pass to a nice spa with a pool to gift the male in your life. Even throw in a facial if you have some extra money. If the man is stressed, or cares about self-care, this is the perfect gift for him.
6.Premium Liquor
If the man in your life collects a specific liquor, find a nice bottle to gift him. A lot of men collect different bourbons, whiskeys, or even tequilas. Find something exclusive or unique that he can add to his bar. Even if he isn’t into liquor, and is a wine head, this is the perfect gift.
7.Pair Of Glasses
You can only gift glasses to someone you know very well. You have to know their face shape, and what style looks best on them. If the man in your life loves glasses, get him a new pair to add to his collection. If he's always rocking aviators, find a cool pair to give him.
8.A Hat
Hats are so universal. If the man in your life loves a hat, get him one that matches his style. For example, my grandfather loves fedoras, one year I got him a fedora and he loved it. Another year, we got him a Gucci baseball cap and he loved it too. Hats are honestly a really good gift to give a man, who already wears them. I wouldn’t gift someone a hat who I’ve never seen where a one. Check out your local Nordstrom rack, because they have some really good quality hats, at affordable prices.
9.Luggage Or A Duffle Bag
If the man in your life travels a lot, this is a nice gift to give him, because it’s something he wouldn’t likely buy himself. New luggage may sound boring, until it’s time to pack your suitcase and hit the plane. If he isn’t into the roller luggage, get him a nice spacious duffle bag. You could even get his initials engraved inside the bag.
10.Clothes
Typically I don’t like gifting people clothes, but when it comes to a man, I would. I’m not saying go find him a new outfit, unless you’re absolutely sure you know his style. Some quality loungewear, a couple jogging suits would be perfect for any man. Even some basketball shorts and T-shirt’s would be a good gift.
11.Sneakers
Once again, you’ll need to know his style to gift this. You can’t go wrong with a nice white pair of sneakers, I feel like men need these every year. If the man in your life is style conscious, get him a funky pair of sneakers that he could put a nice outfit together with.
12.Cigars
This is perfect for some men, especially if they smoke them already. Head to your local cigar shop, and pick him up a box of cigars, with The Cigar kit. That way he can have everything he needs to enjoy his smoking experience.
13.Headphones
These are a great gift idea for any budget. Last year, I upgraded my dad’s AirPods to the pros and he loved them. If the man in your life already has AirPod pros, maybe gift him a pair of AirPod maxes. If he’s heavy into the gym, maybe gift him a pair of beats. Headphones are so universal and can fit anyone’s lifestyle.
14.Pair Of Slippers or Nice Robe
Ugg makes the best house slippers for any gender, especially males. Men don’t think about house comfort, but I promise you if you gift the man in your life a pair of house shoes, you’ll catch him wearing them to the ground. Robes are so comfortable, and men actually like them. You can find a nice plush robe to gift the man in your life, try to get it engraved for a personalized touch.
15.An Outing Or Experience
Take the special man or men in your life out for Father’s Day. Whether that’s to a nice restaurant, the movies to see Bad Boys, the gun range, or even just a sports bar to watch the game, get out the house and spend quality time with the male in your life. This is such a nice gesture to show your appreciation for all that he does.
I hope one or more of these ideas helps you find the perfect gift for the father, father figure, or husband in your life. We have to change the narrative around Father’s Day, because there’s so many amazing fathers out here. Let’s spend not only this weekend, but every weekend, telling and showing them how loved and appreciated they are!